VANFIRE Wellness
What To Do After a Tough Call
If you're feeling off after a call, this is for you.
You might feel wired, shut down, angry, numb, jumpy, flat, or spaced out. Maybe you can’t stop replaying what happened. Maybe you feel nothing at all. Either way, you’re not broken. You’re reacting like a human being to something that is not meant to be seen or carried alone.
This page is built for firefighters and first responders to quickly access tools that work. Whether you’re home, stuck in the rig, or trying to sleep at the hall, these are real, science-backed ways to take care of yourself in the first few days after a critical incident. Use what works. Leave what doesn’t. The key is doing something to help your system reset.
What’s Going On In Your Body
After a major call, your brain and body shift into survival mode. You may not notice it at first. Adrenaline and cortisol spike. Your nervous system ramps up or crashes down. You're either stuck in high alert or feel totally disconnected.
Here’s what’s actually happening:
This is all normal. But if you do nothing, it can get stuck there.
Tools to Reset in the First 24 to 96 Hours
These are actions you can take whether you’re at the hall, at home, or on your way in
Cold and Heat Exposure
Cold water or sauna use can lower cortisol and help bring you out of that wired or shut down state.
Breathing That Calms the System
Controlled breathing can calm your nervous system and stop that fight or flight loop.
Movement That Shakes It Off
Movement helps burn off stress hormones and loosen the physical tension that trauma leaves behind.
Get Outside or See Daylight
Natural light tells your brain the world is safe and helps reset stress chemistry.
Talk It Out, Or Just Sit With Someone
Sometimes you don’t need to say much. Just being with someone helps. But when you do talk, it can move things out of your system.
Fuel and Water
Your brain and body recover better with real fuel. Sugar, caffeine, and alcohol can make the lows worse.
Sleep Smarter
Your sleep may be broken for a night or two. That is expected. But you can still support recovery.
Get Grounded
Stress and trauma pull you out of the moment. Grounding brings you back in.
Transition Back to Real Life
Create a ritual to help your brain shift from incident mode back to baseline.
Hold Off On Big Life Decisions
Your judgment is not at its best when you are dysregulated. Give it time.
When to Get Extra Help
If any of this sticks around for more than three to five days, that is a sign to get support. Reach out if you notice:
Talk to someone. Peer Support, a counselor, a family doc. Getting help is not weakness. It is strategy.
If You Are a Crew Officer
If someone is off, say something. That simple check can stop a problem from growing.
That is leadership. That is brotherhood and sisterhood. We look out for each other.
Videos and Resources
Breathing and Grounding Techniques
Tactical Breathing for First Responders
https://www.ems1.com/mental-health/tactical-breathing-for-first-responders
Integral Breathwork for First Responders
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nm3hb_xJYc4
4-7-8 Breathing for Trauma Recovery
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ccxMJyKI8cQ
Vagus Nerve Reset Exercises
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0bBOgmc45Cs
Mental Health Tools and Peer Support 5. Mental Health Playlist for First Responders
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLO_pmEKewuDZldEgnXD5mVdscOwe--x0R
IAFF Behavioral Health Video Library
https://www.iaff.org/behavioral-health/video-resources/
Trauma and Resiliency for First Responders
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6OIcoxiFSM
Firefighter Stories and Recovery 8. Lessons from One Critical Incident
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j5vqU3sxjiw
Firefighters and Mental Wellness
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfLu1mUNL7Y
Behavioral Health in the Fire Service
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Y62v7S6WNI
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